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Articles by Erik Mildes

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Erik Mildes, MA, LMHC

Licensed Counselor and Clinical Supervisor
(425) 939-9934 erik@seattlechristiancounseling.com

I believe in the healing, transformative promises of Christ. I also believe in His patience, and have had the privilege of seeing God’s grace work miracles in the lives of my clients. As a Master’s level Mental Health Counselor, I’m honored to act as a vessel for the Lord, one that will help you discover healing and growth. I help people recover from issues like abuse, depression, anxiety, broken relationships, spiritual concerns, and more. Whatever you’re going through, I offer you support, experience, and hope for a new, Christ-filled future.

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5 Practical Steps to Overcome Your Fear of Abandonment 3
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5 Practical Steps to Overcome Your Fear ...

Do you feel unable to focus on your relationship without being consumed by fear that your partner will leave you?...

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Surviving Infidelity: 8 Steps to Affair Recovery 3
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Surviving Infidelity: 8 Steps to Affair ...

Surviving infidelity is not something anyone wants to endure. No one gets married and on their wedding day expects that...

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Four Bible Verses about Anxiety: Scriptures to Comfort You
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Four Bible Verses about Anxiety: ...

If you’ve clicked over to this article, then chances are high that you struggle with anxiety. The fact that you’re...

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Stillness in Life’s Storms: Thoughts from a Christian Counselor 1
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Stillness in Life’s Storms: Thoughts ...

Try sitting perfectly still for five minutes. Just sit there and don’t move a muscle. Now go one step further....

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Rebuilding Romance in Your Marriage: Advice from a Christian Counselor 2
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Rebuilding Romance in Your Marriage: ...

I realize that romance goes both ways. It’s not just about the man needing to provide an adequate level of...

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Love Story or a Porn Film? A Christian Counselor’s Thoughts on Relationships 1
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Love Story or a Porn Film? A Christian ...

Sex is everywhere: The magazine rack at the grocery store; clothing catalogs; billboards; television and of course, the Internet, to...

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Communicating with Your Spouse: Tips from a Christian Counselor, Part 1
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Communicating with Your Spouse: Tips ...

Part 1 of a 2-Part Communicating with Your Spouse Series When thinking about communication, many emotions come to mind. The...

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Should Christians Forgive Adultery? 1
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Should Christians Forgive Adultery?

How do I forgive my husband for having an affair? This article is written from the perspective of a woman...

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Can Christians Be Kinky? A Christian Counselor's Viewpoint 1
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Can Christians Be Kinky? A Christian ...

I have sexual fantasies, but am not sure if I should act upon them. So, you are having kinky sexual...

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Benefits of Christian Counseling for Children and Teens with ADHD 1
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Benefits of Christian Counseling for ...

Has your child or teen recently been diagnosed with ADHD? Are you exasperated and unsure how to support him or...

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Overcoming Stress in the Family: Help from a Christian Counselor, Part 2 2
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Overcoming Stress in the Family: Help ...

Part 2 of a 2-Part Overcoming Stress in the Family Series We live in a stressful world and we all...

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Overcoming Stress in the Family: Help from a Christian Counselor, Part 1 1
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Overcoming Stress in the Family: Help ...

Part 1 of a 2-Park Overcoming Stress in the Family Series As we go through the day, we encounter many...

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