Relationship Issues

Do you feel as if something is missing from your current friendships? Do you wish you could figure out how to go deeper into community with your acquaintances? Could something be standing in the way of your ability to form fully-connected, healthy relationships? If so, the skilled therapists at Seattle Christian Counseling can help you unearth some underlying reasons and offer you practical solutions through Bible-based guidance and faith in Christ.

Maybe you have wracked your brain wondering what in the world is keeping you from being able to sustain meaningful relationships. Sometimes it’s useful to have a neutral party who can work with you to decipher some of the factors involved and hone in on a handful of realistic goals. Discovering what is holding you back is one of the first steps in Christian relationship counseling.

Possible hindering factors can include:

• Personal challenges
• Past wounds
• Addictions
• Family of origin obstacles
• Low self-esteem
• Health concerns
• … and more

People struggle with relationships for many reasons. Often the biggest culprit is fear. It’s very common for people to put up walls of protection, especially if they’ve been hurt by people in the past. Whatever the case might be for you, we will help you work through your concerns so you can find and maintain satisfying relationships.

“What can Christian relationship counseling do for me?” Besides teaching you how to have healthy relationships, the counselors at Seattle Christian Counseling will provide guidance regarding other relational aspects as well.

Our goals for you include:

• Showing you how to build a healthy relationship.
• Learning how to make friends and how to be a good friend.
• Finding ways to nurture healthy family dynamics.
• Discovering what might be a barrier to forming close connections with people.
• Experiencing healing for inner wounds and fears.
• Building a stronger connection with yourself and with Christ.

We have so many different types of relationships – relationships with co-workers, friends, family, our spouse or romantic interest, ourselves and God. Wherever your area of concern might be, we are here to help you through compassionate and effective Christian counseling.

At Seattle Christian Counseling, we want to see you form satisfying relationships with the loved ones in your life, with yourself and with God. To help you achieve this, common topics we will discuss include Christian fellowship, solid friendships, healthy family dynamics and fulfilling romantic relationships.

The Value of Christian Fellowship

What do you think when you hear the word, “fellowship”? Is it potluck Sunday at your church or is it something more? Christian fellowship is about the gathering together of like-minded people who can serve, strengthen and support one another as fellow members of the body of Christ.

Surrounding yourself with people who will lift you up and help you grow spiritually through Christ-centered conversation, discipleship and accountability is vital to your walk with the Lord. If you are new to the area and want help finding a church that will support your beliefs, we might be able to help you get connected as well.

Building Meaningful Friendships

Sometimes establishing quality friendships can be hard. If you find yourself feeling isolated or engaging in superficial, shallow friendships that aren’t very satisfying, it might be time to seek a change.

Maybe you’re wondering how to make new friends. If this is the case, we can help you discover ways to find people with whom you can build genuine relationships, while also finding tools for keeping these relationships alive.

Growing Christian Families

Is something keeping you from feeling wholly satisfied with your family relationships? If so, what might be standing in the way? These are questions we will explore with you. If you feel distant from those you love, face consistent conflict or just want a healthier, more Christ-centered dynamic in your home, we can help.

Together we will take a close look at your unique family unit. We will search for ways to nurture strengths, find solutions for areas of weakness and work towards growing a supportive family environment.

Christian Dating

Despite your best intentions, it can be hard to know where to go and what to look for in a Christ-centered relationship. Have you been getting the results you desire? If not, we would be happy to meet with you to chat through a variety of possible factors, as well as a viable way forward.

Maybe something is keeping you from letting people fully into your life. Maybe you are confused about what you want in a relationship or how to engage in dating relationships without getting hurt or compromising your faith, beliefs and Christian values. Whatever your struggles, we are here to help you find clarity and faith-based answers.

Craving Connection 

We are wired with a need for connection. If you feel that area of your life is lacking, the therapists at Seattle Christian Counseling can help. Whether you’re struggling at work, with friendships, within your family or in the dating world, we can offer you sound advice for finding the relationship guidance you need.

How is Christian counseling different?

Christian counseling is different from secular counseling in that it considers all aspects necessary to build whole, fulfilling relationships. What the world considers “normal” or “healthy” isn’t always aligned with what God has designed. Through this knowledge and through faith in Christ, we offer a holistic approach to relationship counseling.

What type of Christian counselor do I need?

When seeking a counselor, you want someone who is experienced in understanding how relationships form, how they affect us and how our behaviors and past relationships affect our interactions with others. You also want someone with whom you feel comfortable. We welcome you to take a look at our online counselor profiles to help you find the best match for your needs.

Do I need marriage counseling or family counseling?

The answer to this question depends on your unique needs. Sometimes individual counseling is enough to get the results you want. Other times it helps to include your family or partner in the counseling process. If you’re not sure which is best for you, your counselor can talk this over with you during your initial session. Should you need marriage counseling or family counseling, you might also continue with individual counseling to boost results.

If you’re tired of less-than-fulfilling relationships, discouraged by the lack of connection in your life or feeling alone, contact us today.

To learn more about Christian relationship counseling or to schedule your risk-free initial session* with Seattle Christian Counseling, we welcome you to give us a call at (206) 388-3929 or contact us online.