Family Counseling

But the LORD’s love for those who have respect for him lasts for ever and ever. Their children’s children will know that he always does what is right. – Psalm 103:17

The happiest, most fulfilled families share something in common: they put God at the center of the family. From effective parenting, to how we love one another, to conflict resolution, to giving thanks to God for the many blessings we have – all of these Christ-centered ideas and biblical teachings form the foundation for a fully-functional, happy home. Though it’s good to strive for this ideal, don’t feel too badly if there are things standing in the way. Christian family counseling can help you overcome these obstacles as a family, so each of you can grow in Christ and in your love with one another.

Who Needs Family Counseling?

Every family goes through difficult times. When troubles persist, taking away from the peace, stability, and sanctuary of your home, it might be time for Christian family counseling.

Common Benefits of Christian family counseling include:

• Conflict resolution for parents.
• Help with child or teen behavior and/or academic issues.
• Sibling rivalry solutions.
• Support for mental illness or substance abuse within the family.
• Guidance through difficult transitions like moving or career changes.
• Resolving blended family issues.
• Tools for effective parenting.
• Growing spiritual development within the family unit.

When things aren’t going so well at home, it can affect all areas of your life. Your family is supposed to offer support, love, and a safety net from the cares and troubles of this world. At Seattle Christian Counseling, we are passionate about helping families unite in Christ.

When compared to other treatments, counseling is proven significantly more effective in improving conflict-related problems in families.

The LORD is a place of safety for those who have been treated badly. He keeps them safe in times of trouble. LORD, those who know you will trust in you. You have never deserted those who look to you. – Psalm 9:9-10

If you’re here, something’s troubling you. When your family goes through hard times, it can quickly take its toll on your overall happiness and wellbeing. At Seattle Christian Counseling, we welcome you and your family to enter into the peace and safety of Christ Jesus. In looking to Christ, we find everything we need for building strong relationships and overcoming any obstacle life throws at us. Our Christian counselors operate on the foundation of faith while using God-given knowledge and skills for helping families learn, grow, and heal wounds of the past.

How Can Christian Counseling Help My Family?

Christian family counseling is designed especially for the unique dynamics and problems families face, with the goal of finding faith-based solutions for growing a godly family despite the challenges and worldly cares that devalue the Christian home.

Common Focus Areas for Christian Family Counseling Include:

• Relationships Between Parents – If you’re having problems in your marriage, getting to the bottom of those issues might be the best thing you can do for yourself, your spouse, and your children. So much of what your children learn about relationships comes from watching you, and harmful behaviors not only affect the peace of your home now but can have lasting effects on your children. Click here for more information on Christian marriage counseling.
• Parent-Child Relationships – If you’re feeling disconnected from your children, we know how heartbreaking that can be. Whether dealing with behavior issues, breakdown in communication, or something else, we will work with you to rebuild your most cherished relationships.
• Blended Family Relationships – Blended families are very common these days. In fact, 40% of married couples with children in the U.S. are step-couples. Sometimes parents and children need help adjusting to changes when the parents re-marry, especially if that means getting new brothers, sisters, or step-children. Even if things seem to be going smoothly, Christian family counseling can offer extra support for making sure your family really thrives.

• Grief and Loss – If your family suffered a loss, we are here to support you in any way we can. Parents and children alike can struggle with the pain of losing a loved one and sometimes it helps to lean on someone while working through the natural process of grief.
• Transitions and Trauma – Life gets hectic sometimes, and it’s normal to have a hard time when change happens suddenly. But, when that change is traumatic or affects the stability and peace in your home, Christian family counseling can be very useful for helping your family get back on track.
• Health Issues and Addictions – Addictions affect families every day. For example, an estimated 43% of adults in the U.S. have had a parent, child, or sibling who was or is an alcoholic. If things like addictions or other chronic medical or mental health issues are affecting your home, it’s important to get help. We offer a compassionate place for you to work through these tough issues as a family.
• Faith in the Family – You might have heard the saying, “families that pray together stay together.” In many cases, that is very true. But, when issues of faith are causing conflict, or if members in your family are struggling with questions and doubt, Christian family counseling is here to lend a helping hand.

My God will meet all your needs. He will meet them in keeping with his wonderful riches. These riches come to you because you belong to Christ Jesus. – Philippians 4:19

Family is one of the greatest riches we have. We all want loving relationships with our family members, but let’s be honest, sometimes keeping everyone happy is a challenge. Each person has their own ideas, feelings, and concerns – and sometimes it’s easy to fall into a rut of communication breakdown and hurt feelings. That’s where Christian Counseling is particularly useful.

What Happens in Family Counseling?

A Christian family counselor’s job is to grow and strengthen the family unit, one family member at a time. Each person is given a chance to tell their story and to share their concerns, hopes, and vision for what a happy family is like. While working together to restore communication, respect, and connection, you can expect to see wonderful, positive change for everyone in your home.

Christian Family Counseling Goals

Take a moment to ask yourself this question: Is your family all it could be? If not, what is standing in the way? The goals for family counseling is different for each family, depending on the struggles they currently face. Even so, there is a common standard that most families shoot for. Some of the most common goals we strive for in Christian family counseling include:

• Developing better communication and understanding between family members.
• Rebuilding trust and emotional bonds.
• Building better relationships between family members.
• Gaining tools for overcoming challenges as a connected family unit.
• Growing Christ within each individual and the family as a whole.

When a family crisis happens, don’t sweep it under the rug. Your family is one of the most precious and important treasures a person can have. When properly nurtured, your family can be a place of calm amidst a sea of chaos, pain, and troubles. Even so, no matter how healthy a family might be, unforeseen difficulties can arise. Whatever your troubles might be, Christian family counseling offers you a place of healing and restoration in Christ.

Home is Where the Heart is. If Your Heart is Broken, We Can Help

To learn more about Christian family counseling, or to schedule your risk-free initial session*, contact us online or give us a call at (206) 388-3929.