Seattle Christian Counseling Logo

  • ServicesRead about the expertise available
    • Individual ServicesAddress your personal concerns confidentially
      • Abandonment and Neglect
      • ADHD
      • Aging and Geriatric Issues
      • Anger Management
      • Anxiety
      • Autism Spectrum Disorder
      • Bipolar Disorder
      • Chemical Dependency
      • Coaching
      • Codependency
      • Counseling for Children
      • Counseling for Teens
      • Depression
      • Eating Disorders
      • EMDR
      • Grief and Loss
      • Individual Counseling
      • Infidelity and Affairs
      • Lifespan Integration Therapy
      • Men’s Issues
      • OCD
      • Personal Development
      • Post Traumatic Stress Disorder
      • Professional Development
      • Psychological Testing
      • Relationship Issues
      • Sex And Porn Addiction
      • Sexual Abuse
      • Spiritual Development
      • Trauma
      • Weight Loss
      • Women’s Issues
    • Christian Couples CounselingWork through challenges together
      • Couples Counseling
      • Premarital Counseling
      • Marriage Counseling
      • Marriage Intensive
    • Family CounselingEstablish the peaceful home you desire
      • Couples Counseling
      • Counseling for Teens
      • Counseling for Children
      • Family Counseling
    • Group CounselingBenefit from the support of others
      • All Counseling Groups
    • Online Counseling
    • Anxiety
    • Depression
    • Marriage Counseling
    • Sexual Addiction
  • LocationsChoose from our variety of office locations
    • Bellevue Office FrontBellevue
    • Bothell Office Front EntranceBothell
    • Edmonds Christian CounselingEdmonds
    • Everett Office Front EntranceEverett
    • Federal Way Office ParkingFederal Way
    • Hansville
    • Kent Office FrontKent
    • Kirkland OutsideKirkland
    • Lacey Christian CounselingLacey
    • Mill Creek OfficeMill Creek
    •  1Monroe
    • Oak Harbor Office OutsideOak Harbor
    • Puyallup Christian CounselingPuyallup
    • Redmond OfficeRedmond
    • Seattle Greenlake OutsideSeattle Greenlake
    • Silverdale Office FrontSilverdale
    • Spokane OutsideSpokane
    • Spokane Valley Christian CounselingSpokane Valley
    • North Spokane Christian CounselingNorth Spokane
    • Tacoma Office EntranceTacoma
    • Vancouver
    •  1Online Counseling
  • CounselorsFind the best counselor for your needs
  • CareersBecome an affiliated Christian counselor
  • (206) 388-3929Please give us a call, we are here to help
header-image

A New Groundwork: Discerning Your Gifts

Seattle Christian Counseling
https://seattlechristiancounseling.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/image002-300x236.jpg 300 236
https://seattlechristiancounseling.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/seattle-greenlake-6-scaled.jpg
https://seattlechristiancounseling.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/cropped-cropped-seattle-logo.png
6827 Oswego Place NE, Suite B
SEATTLE, WA 98115
United States
6827 Oswego Place NE, Suite B
SEATTLE, WA 98115
United States
Photo of Erik Mildes

Erik Mildes

Nov
2013
11

A New Groundwork: Discerning Your Gifts

Erik Mildes

Individual CounselingPersonal Development

“The world needs ditch-diggers, too.”

 

If you’ve ever seen Caddyshack, the slapstick comedy about golf, you will recognize this line and the sarcastic way in which it was delivered. But you didn’t have to see the movie, to understand what was being said. Many people in our world consider there to be a hierarchy among professions. Some jobs are more important than others, the thinking goes. The “skilled” workers are, to continue the analogy, more valuable than the “unskilled” workers. We’ve all felt this reality, either from the perspective of the “skilled” or the “unskilled” worker.  But while this may be the prevailing mindset in our world, from the Christian understanding of things, nothing could be further from the truth.

Martin Luther, the theologian who launched the movement that became known as the Reformation, addressed this point with great clarity. In Luther’s day, those who worked in the church were perceived to be of greater importance than anyone else. Luther, though himself a church worker, soundly rejected this idea. Everyone, Luther believed, played a part in making the whole of society a success. Whether you were a priest who worked in the church or a mason who built the church itself, or a custodian who made sure it was clean, all played an equally important role in ensuring the success of the church.

Like us if you are enjoying this content.

Scripture makes this point time and time again. Perhaps the Apostle Paul made it the best, when he said plain and simply, “God shows no partiality.” (Romans 2:11)  The distinctions we create amongst ourselves, the hierarchies we establish, have nothing to do with God’s perspective.  A CEO, a minimum wage worker and an unemployed person are all the same thing to God: His children. And every child of God, in their uniquely created being, has the ability to contribute an equally significant share to the whole of society.

Take a simple loaf of bread.  We adore the finished product and easily laud praises on the baker. But, as Luther reminds us, when we give thanks for our bread, we need to give thanks “for everything that contributes to having and enjoying our daily bread…the flour bin and baking oven but also over the broad fields, the farmlands, and the entire country that produces, processes, and conveys to us our daily bread.” (p.70)  Everything comes from something, the point goes. And every “something” no matter how small or unseen, plays an equally significant role in the creation of the whole.

The same analogy can be made for many parts of our modern lives. The very fact that this article is posted on the Internet, speaks to the tens of thousands of people who contributed to its creation. They didn’t write the article, but without their technological genius and creativity, you wouldn’t be reading it. Every one of their contributions, seen and unseen, are of equal proportion.

This Biblical understanding of work offers a great sense of freedom. Freedom to invest ourselves in the gifts we have been given, whatever they may be, knowing that our value is not determined by our visibility or notoriety, but in our contribution to something larger than ourselves.

But in addition to this idea that the parts are equal to the whole, there is a deeper spiritual point about our inherent value before God. Some of us are paid more than others. Some work longer hours than others. Some are more respected by society than others. But the truth is, our work does nothing to justify our existence before God. We are chosen and loved unconditionally by God, regardless of who we are or what we do. Remember this when you find yourself feeling less important that your more accomplished colleague. Remember this when you are feeling compelled to speed up your pace in the rat race. If you recognize yourself as God’s beloved child endowed with a unique set of gifts, what will matter most is not keeping up with the Jones’s, but discovering how best to use your gifts.

A Christian counselor can help you discern your gifts. At Seattle Christian Counseling, we can help you take hold of an understanding of the work you do from God’s greater perspective. The days of determining our value by the level of promotion we’ve achieved, or the number of zeros on our paycheck, can be over if we want them to be. Contact Christian counselors today to get started on re-interpreting your life as one of God’s beloved children. The results can be greater than any promotion or professional accolades you could receive.

 

Reference
Quotation taken from:
Every Good Endeavor: Connecting Your Work to God’s Work. Timothy Keller.  Dutton. ©2012

 

Photos
Courtesy of Stuart Miles, FreeDigitalPhotos.net 

DISCLAIMER: THIS ARTICLE DOES NOT PROVIDE MEDICAL ADVICE

The information, including but not limited to, text, graphics, images and other material contained on this article are for informational purposes only. No material on this site is intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Please contact one of our counselors for further information.

  • Share on Facebook
  • Tweet it
  • ↑ Back to top
Photo of Erik Mildes
Schedule with Erik
  • This field is for validation purposes and should be left unchanged.
  • Appointment Info

  • Your Info

Erik Mildes

Licensed Counselor and Clinical Supervisor
(425) 939-9934 erik@seattlechristiancounseling.com

I believe in the healing, transformative promises of Christ. I also believe in His patience, and have had the privilege of seeing God’s grace work miracles in the lives of my clients. As a Master’s level Mental Health Counselor, I’m honored to act as a vessel for the Lord, one that will help you discover healing and growth. I help people recover from issues like abuse, depression, anxiety, broken relationships, spiritual concerns, and more. Whatever you’re going through, I offer you support, experience, and hope for a new, Christ-filled future. Read more articles by Erik »

Other articles that might interest you...

3 Therapeutic Tips for Parents -- Reflective Language (Part 1)
Seattle Christian Counseling

Why Children’s Counseling?

As you decorate a child’s room with art at their eye level, age-appropriate toys, and child-sized furniture, so children’s counseling...

continue reading »
Ways Christian Counseling Aids Personal Growth and Development 1
Seattle Christian Counseling

Ways Christian Counseling Aids Personal ...

Counseling can take many different forms, and it can have many different goals and outcomes. There are a variety of...

continue reading »
Christian Pre-Marital Counseling and Conflict
Photo of Benjamin Deu

Benjamin Deu

Christian Pre-Marital Counseling and ...

Eyes Wide Open Ben Franklin advised those considering entering into matrimony, “Keep your eyes wide open before marriage and half-shut...

continue reading »

About Erik

Photo of Erik Mildes

Erik Mildes, MA, LMHC

Licensed Counselor and Clinical Supervisor

I believe in the healing, transformative promises of Christ. I also believe in His patience, and have had the privilege of seeing God’s grace work miracles in the lives of my clients. As a Master’s level Mental Health Counselor, I’m honored to act as a vessel for the Lord, one that will help you discover healing and growth. I help people recover from issues like abuse, depression, anxiety, broken relationships, spiritual concerns, and more. Whatever you’re going through, I offer you support, experience, and hope for a new, Christ-filled future. View Erik's Profile

Recent articles by Erik

  • May 19 · 5 Practical Steps to Overcome Your Fear of Abandonment
  • Apr 20 · Surviving Infidelity: 8 Steps to Affair Recovery
  • Jun 17 · Four Bible Verses about Anxiety: Scriptures to Comfort You
See all articles by Erik »

Related Services

  • Individual Counseling
  • Personal Development

Erik's Office Locations

  • Photo of the Bothell office

    Bothell

    Washington

    General Office Number

    (425) 939-7959
    10116 Main St,, Suite 204 Bothell, WA 98011

    View Office Details
Seattle Christian Counseling Logo
Seattle Christian Counseling
Professional help with faith-based values
Welcome to Seattle Christian Counseling. We are an association of professional, independently licensed Christian counselors with more than 20 office locations throughout Washington state for your convenience, including the Seattle neighborhoods of Greenlake, Ballard, and Downtown Lower Queen Anne. We look forward to meeting you soon.
© 2026 Seattle Christian Counseling. All rights reserved.
6827 Oswego Place NE, Suite B, Seattle, WA 98115. Tel (206) 388-3929.
Facebook Twitter Online Counseling About Us Privacy Policy Terms of Use Feel free to contact us!
We are open for business. In person and online counseling are available now.