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Benjamin Deu, MA, LMHC

Licensed Counselor and Clinical Supervisor
(425) 533-0137 benjamin@seattlechristiancounseling.com

You were created in the image of God for the purpose of bringing Him glory. Perhaps you are currently in a season in which you do not feel that you are bringing glory to God. Maybe you are even questioning whether you were made in His image. Many people reach a point in their lives when they feel stuck. They want to move forward, but they feel powerless and don’t know where to turn. Using biblical principles, warmth, and patience, I will work with you to seek lasting, positive change that will help you reflect God’s image and bring Him glory.

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How to Fix a Broken Marriage
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How to Fix a Broken Marriage

Marriage is one of the most, if not the most, important relationships in life. If you don’t think this is...

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I Think I Have Commitment Phobia. What Should I Do?
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I Think I Have Commitment Phobia. What ...

Commitment phobia is the fear of commitment. One of the most basic desires and needs of humanity is to be...

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Bible Verses about Anger: Overcoming Anger Issues God’s Way
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Bible Verses about Anger: Overcoming ...

Anger is one of the most problematic of human emotions. It gets human beings into all sorts of trouble. While...

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10 Great Sex Tips for Married Couples
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10 Great Sex Tips for Married Couples

Ok here’s a little bedroom tip. Put a bag of popcorn in the microwave before hand. That way, when you’re...

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Christian Counseling for 3 Myths About Marriage Fights
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Christian Counseling for 3 Myths About ...

Trying to “fight fair” and “be reasonable” when you’re arguing with your partner is kind of like trying to recite...

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Differentiation in Christian Marriage: Developing Yourself in Relationship 1
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Differentiation in Christian Marriage: ...

Scripture on Marriage: Rediscovering God’s View The Bible says that when two people come together in marriage, they become one...

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When Sex Gets Boring, Is It Over? Christian Counselor’s approach to Sexual Boredom 2
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When Sex Gets Boring, Is It Over? ...

If you stay married long enough, your sex life will get boring. But it doesn’t have to stay that way....

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Can a Christian Marriage Recover From An Affair When You Don’t Want It Fixed?
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Can a Christian Marriage Recover From ...

Ambivalence is not uncommon after an affair – in either partner. The involved partner may be unsure whether they want...

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Emotional Deadness Is A Marriage Problem Just as Serious as Anger
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Emotional Deadness Is A Marriage ...

References Bridging the Couple Chasm by John Gottman, PhD and Julie Schwartz Gottman, PhD Slamming doors and screaming matches are...

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Christian Counseling Uncovers What You Are Really Saying When You Fight
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Christian Counseling Uncovers What You ...

References The Path to a Secure Bond: Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy by Susan M. Johnson and Paul S. Greenman “You...

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4 Myths about Sexless Marriages Explored with Christian Couples Counseling
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4 Myths about Sexless Marriages ...

References Dr. David Schnarch’s “Myths About Sexless Marriages” from CrucibleTherapy.com and “Intimacy & Desire.” The Low Desire Partner is Hung...

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Your Attitude Affects the Success of Your Marriage After An Affair
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Your Attitude Affects the Success of ...

References NOT ‘Just Friends’ by Shirley P. Glass, Ph.D with Jean Coppock Staeheli You and your spouse’s attitudes post-affair are...

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